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January 2022

Post #23: New Year 2022…New Me?!?

The new year seems to be the ideal time to set countless goals and make an insane number of lists. I decided to share my resolutions for 2022 and a few tips for you all.

Nikki’s New Year Resolutions

Prioritize rest

Take more risks

Get back into my health journey (not prioritizing weight loss)

Visit new places

Clean up raggedy money habits

Enhance my PM skills

Get back to therapy

Tips

Do not try to change too many things at once

Do not give in to pandemic fatigue

Do not take any people baggage into the new year

Remember to check your dates (2022 not 2021)

Make self-care a priority

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November 2021

Episode #9: Be Thankful For Your Bald-Headed Turkey…A Discussion About Gratitude

SPOTIFY

https://open.spotify.com/episode/3CiQhBN8FJWAZF7nBDnYsB?si=MzpbEZw1RdaUjHmdlJGi5A

APPLE PODCASTS

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/venus-in-september/id1585922094?i=1000542588744

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November 2021

Episode #7: Is It Time For Something New…Talking About The Job Search and Interviewing Process

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/venus-in-september/id1585922094?i=1000540995581

https://open.spotify.com/episode/05yjLSFjdVMeINY9QtUm8U?si=ggVspdERTFab28coH6AsuA

https://anchor.fm/nikki1844/episodes/Episode-7-Is-It-Time-For-Something-NewTalking-About-The-Job-Search-and-Interviewing-Process-e19s57n

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November 2020

Post #14: Uncomfortable vulnerability

I have tried to avoid being vulnerable like the plague. All of my life, I have never had the luxury of being “soft”. The world does not allow girls (women) like me to be soft. Oftentimes, we aren’t the ones who get rescued. There aren’t fathers who are functional enough to protect us and shield us from the world. They are battling their own demons. We have to fight tooth and nail to rescue ourselves. This fact leads to the building of lifelong walls that are almost impossible to tear down.

However, I am opening up to the idea of being vulnerable. Losing my mom forced me to open up a level of vulnerability that exposed my emotions for the world to see. I’ve always believed that grief should not be for public consumption. At my mom’s funeral, I fought with everything in me not to cry at the service. I made the mistake of touching her body in the coffin. Her body was cold just like it had been when she was fighting for her life in ICU…hooked up to a ventilator. I couldn’t contain my grief after that.

As I age, I am learning to tear down walls I built in my youth. I’m more open to asking for help and admitting my mistakes. Who knows, maybe I’ll even end up letting go enough to fall in love…we’ll see

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September 2020

Post #11: I’m a whole 29 years old…chile

I used to think that 30 was old. In my mind, 30 was the age in which I would need to have my entire life together…professional, social, emotional, mental, romantic and financial. Yeah, that’s not going to happen.

Society does a good job of shaming people for not having everything figured out by 25. I’m guilty of pushing those beliefs on myself. I have learned in these 29 years that life is about continuous growth and development. No one truly has everything together. There’s always room for improvement. However, it is important to stop and be thankful for all that you have accomplished. Life is not always pretty. Even hard moments have contributed to developing your resilience.

I’m going to make it my priority to live and love as hard as I can. I’m looking forward to enjoying the journey. #thisis29